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Of Blankies, Bears and Loveys

Sometimes we adults get worried about a child’s attachment to a favorite blanket or toy. “He’s too old for a blankie,” people say. “She’s got to stop carrying that old thing around,” or “It’s not the lovey I mind, but … Continue reading

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10 Responses to Of Blankies, Bears and Loveys

  1. deidra says:

    My child has a lovey and as far as I am concerned he can get it for as long as he wants. It was a gift from my aunt and I am as attached to it as he is. I brought my lovey with me to college and it stayed on my bed until I got married. My best friend in college also brought her lovey to college.

  2. Briana Feinberg says:

    Thanks for this. My son has a monkey that goes everywhere with us (and we have a “deputy monkey” so I can occasionally throw him in the wash!) I kept my beloved bear with me through my whole life, and in October, I posted this anecdote on Facebook:
    Ellias has suddenly developed a friendship with Barney, the bear who was my constant companion through childhood. Barney was with me at home, during hospital stays, and later on my travels across the ocean. My family used to joke that he would be walking down the aisle with me… so it is very gratifying to watch Ellias asking him if he’s “been to the moon” (because the bear on his pjs is dressed as an astronaut) or if he’s been to the zoo, or the children’s garden, or the train station, and for Barney to reply, “No, but I’ve been to Paris, France and seen the Eiffel Tower.” Ellias asked Barney if he would come to his crib with him tonight, and as I closed the door, I overheard him saying, “Barney, do you like fish sticks?” This is some serious Toy Story stuff going on here, people.

    • Heather Shumaker says:

      I love the “deputy monkey!” Always good to have a stand-in. How heartwarming that your son is developing a relationship with your childhood bear. Sounds as if they will get on famously!

  3. Celine says:

    Thanks Heather for talking about it today. It comes just the day as I’ve been watching a French Nanny show, where there was a five-year-old with a pacifier in her mouth all day long (or so it seemed). Nanny obviously ordered her to throw it in the garbage, and… by the end of the show, the same little girl was definitely sucking her thumb. Just shows you there is not much you can do to avoid dentist bills.
    Interestingly, two of my hubby’s workmates shared how jealous they were of those who had braces at school, as they did not need them themselves…

    • Heather Shumaker says:

      Ah, yes, kids will find another way to get their needs met. Thanks so much for sharing.

  4. Sarah says:

    Recently on holiday in India our daughter’s “Baby” was forgotten at our hotel lobby when we set out for the airport, 2 hours away. We realised half an hour into the journey. We phoned the hotel & Baby was sent in a separate taxi to meet us at the airport! The taxi cost more than Baby had in the first place but thank goodness it was India & the cost was in rupees – negligible in £s compared to our daughter’s need for her Baby.

    • Heather Shumaker says:

      What a lovely story! I can just picture the extra taxi rushing to meet you. Glad she has Baby back with her again.

  5. Pam says:

    I gave my 7 yo son a blankie when he was about 6 months old. He has loved it since, and he continues sleeping with is blankie. He also used pacfier, but that one we sent it to the pacifier heaven. As a result, my son started sucking his thumb and hasnt stopped since. I was very worried, until I read this article. I can understand my son a little more now. Thanks.

  6. Chloe says:

    Great write up, I got my son a lovely. It was a gift from my aunt and I am as attached to it as he is. I brought my lovey with me to college and it stayed on my bed until I got married. My best friend in college also brought her lovey to college.

New Year’s anytime

My kids had fun counting down the New Year. By the time midnight came, one was in bed, but my older son stayed up to watch the ball drop and leaped and shouted “It’s 2015!  It’s 2015!” We all need … Continue reading

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  1. I guess I think of New Season’s more than New Year. A new golf season in March or April is the start of imagining the possibilities of mastering the stupid game at least once.

    Fall is the season to refresh after a (usually) hot summer. Fall colors, blue sky days with billowy clouds, and cool nights with windows wide open make for invigorating sleep (which is NOT an oxymoron. 🙂 )

    Jan. 1 is the start of my fiscal New Year, which is the time to evaluate spending and savings goals and adding up last years income and expenses to see if we gained or lost financial ground.

    And of course there’s the start of baseball season around April 1 and hockey season around November 1 (college of course–go Gophers!)

    I try to avoid specific “resolutions” and just do what needs to be done when I evaluate what needs fixing or improving. Don’t need a specific date for that.

    I’m sure school-aged kids’ new years revolve around the first day of school in the fall, not Jan. 1. I based my life perception on that, exclusively. Jan. 1 was just a day to celebrate starting a new calendar, eating good food with family, and watching football all day.

    Good topic, Heather


  2. Heather Shumaker says:

    Love your idea of New Seasons. Very true, it’s how we live our lives. So many new starts and seasons of life for everything.